1. That natural spark- Yep! Men want chemistry as much as women do. You don’t have to be a super model for him to feel that little something extra about you. Dazzle him with your natural Pizazz and he’ll be following you home like a puppy.

2. A confident gal- Walk tall and know what you want, and he’ll want you! Be confident in your own skin, and he’ll love you for it. Just don’t be arrogant about it, or he’ll look elsewhere.

3. Be authentic- Be yourself and don’t try too hard. Guys can tell when you’re being a “show boat” and not yourself. A genuine girl is a sexy one.

4. Dress up or dress down well- Men love a gal who can pull off a pony tail as well as a slinky black dress. Let him know you can be just as beautiful without all the make-up and frills and he’ll keep coming back for more.

5. Assertiveness is sexy- No guy likes a women who doesn’t know what she wants or how to ask for it. Know when to “wear the pants” so he’ll want to see you in that nighty. If you can find a way to balance masculinity and femininity…that’s sexy.