All relationships go through ups and downs and that’s just part of life. But just because you’ve been with someone for a long time doesn’t mean you should take it for granted. If you’re willing to put in a little effort, your relationship will be better. To keep feeling attracted to each other for the long haul, make sure you’re doing these things.
Practice Self-Care - No matter what else is going on in your life, you should be taking care of yourself, that means eating right, getting enough sleep, and all the things that help you feel happier and healthier - so your relationship and sex life will be too.
Give yourselves space to miss each other - Sure you love being around each other all the time, but a little distance can help keep the passion alive. Each partner needs their own space and time away to help create a little mystery and sexual energy.
Send sexy messages - No one is suggesting you start sending nudie pics everyday, but a fun, flirty text can help keep the spark alive. Not sure what to write? Start with “I can’t wait until…” or “Remember that time …” or “What if we …” and take it from there.
Keep romance alive outside the bedroom - Sex is important, but so is attraction. So keep it all going by continuing to date your partner, even when you’re in a long-term relationship - it’ll keep your romance alive and kicking.
Come on to each other - You’re probably pretty much a sure thing to your partner, but coming on to each other will help you each remember how much your partner wants you.
Be appreciative - Say thank you for all the things your partner does for you and remind yourself what a great relationship you have.
Source: Elite Daily